First dates can be stressful. When I first started dating I’d go on dates and have nothing to say. That is why I came up with questions to help myself. Now don’t go asking every question as it can start feeling like an interview. Try to ask around 10 questions and keep the conversation flowing from that. Or you can play a question game that can be fun as well and won’t feel like a job interview. So, let’s get to the 100 questions to ask on a first date
First date questions
- What do you do for work
- How many siblings do you have
- What area do you live in
- Where do you see yourself in 5 years
- What do you do for fun
- Do you have any goals
- What was your pandemic hobby
- Do you like work from home?
- What is your favourite icecream flavour
- Are you a beach vacation, mountain vacation or city vacation kind of person
- Whats a deal breaker
- Would you live in the middle of nowhere
- What is your biggest fear
- What is one thing you can’t live without
- Do you like watching sports
- What do you eat as comfort food
- Do you like playing sports
- What is one dish you could eat forever
- Do you know how to cook
- What is your favourite meal to cook
- What does a weekend in your life look like
- Do you consider yourself outdoorsy
- What is your favourite childhood memory
- If you didn’t have to care about money would you work at the same job
- What is your favourite restaurant
- Do you have a comfort food what is it?
- What does a day in your life look like
- Are you a take out or eat at a restaurant type of person?
- What’s the most exciting thing you have done
- Do you consider yourself daring
- What would your ideal first date be
- What are you looking for
- Whats a deal breaker
- What dating app is your favourite and why
- Whats the worst date you have been on
- Where would you like your next vacation to be
- If you were an animal what animal would it be
- What is your favourite book
- Do you read
- What type of music do you listen to
- What is your favourite tv show
- Do you like watching movies in the cinema or home
- What is your favourite colour
- Where would you ideally like to live
- What is your favourite season
- Have you ever had a pet? What was your first pet
- Where have your travelled and where would you like to go
- Would you ever go on a solo trip
- What do you like to do on vacations
- Are you a morning person?
- What is the TV show you have watched the most
- Name the last show you binge watched
- What trend did you never understand
- What household chore do you hate doing
- Where did you meet your closest friend
- Would you ever want to be a celebrity
- What do you do for self care
- Would you want power or fame more?
- Prior to calling someone do you practice what you are going to say
- Do you sing in the bathroom?
- What is your favourite drink to have?
- Do you like walking?
- Would you want to be invisible, have the power to fly, be flash or time travel. Why?
- What is the worst job you have had
- If you had a start up what would it be for
- Do you like road trips?
- What topic of conversation interests you the most
- Would you be able to live on an RV full time
- What is your favourite park
- Are you an introvert or an extrovert
- What do you do when you are sad?
- What is your favourite chocolate
- Do you like sweet or salty food
- What sounds like a weird food combo but tastes really good together?
- What is your go to drink to have?
- Do you like sea water or lakes?
- What is your favourite social media account
- Could you live without your phone for a week?
- What is the weirdest question you have been asked on a first date
- What is the most interesting food you have had
- Would you be willing to try eating a weird animal or insect?
- Do you like grocery shopping?
- What is the funniest work story you have
- Have you ever sent a message to the wrong person? How did it turn out?
- Whats the most interesting prank you have tried to pull
- What is the most beautiful view you have ever seen?
- When you were a child what seemed the best thing about being an adult
- What is one thing you wanted as a child that now seems weird
- Do you like gardening
- What is your favourite dessert
- Are you a coffee or tea person?
- What is your favourite food to snack on
- Would you ever sky dive?
- What do you like eating for breakfast
- Pepsi or coke?
- Camping or cottaging?
- Starbucks or Tim Hortons?
- If they have tattoos you can ask what they mean
- The most embarrassing thing that has happened to you
- Suburb or city?
So which questions are you going to choose from the list of questions to ask on a first date?
Stressed about the first date? We have a blog on what not to do on a first date! Not sure where to go? We have first date ideas.
